The importance of a caring father in children’s lives

Creating a strong family takes work. Both Moms and Dads need to invest themselves in parenting and can teach, influence, nurture, discipline, care for basic needs, and role model values and beliefs to their children.

History has shown that fathers typically have been providers for the family and disciplinarians of children. However, today’s culture is changing and more young fathers are becoming actively involved in their children’s daily lives or are seeking an avenue in which to become more involved. The list of things a father can do to be successful in his role is a long one and everyone’s list is likely to be a little different. There are multiple characteristics of fathers but the commonality that brings fathers together is that all fathers have a child.

Great Dads: How to succeed materials were developed by John DeFrain, Ph.D., Extension Specialists, Family and Community Development, and Kathy Bosch, Ph.D., Extension Specialist, Family Life Education, both University of Nebraska professors. The course was developed from reading social and behavioral science research literature on fatherhood and working with hundreds of parents over the past 30 years. Twelve short lessons with discussion questions and activities and may be used as a self-study course or in a small group setting. Suggestions are offered on the following topics for fathers who wish to rise to the lofty position of Dad: